of wedding preparations!

Hello peeps! :D Sorry it's been a really really long time since my last update! I know it didn't look like as if I'm coming back to the blogging world (considering my last post was during the last week of puasa! :p)

I have been busy. Yes, very busyyyyy! This month by far has got to be the busiest month in my year. I have all my weekends fully book. And all my nights in front of the computer. And definitely the most stressful month in the year! Well, so far at least. I predict it'll be more hectic and stressful as the day pass by!

As you all know, I'm now happily and blissfully engaged. And insyaAllah, will be getting married this year as well. Looking at the calendar, I have less than 90 days to go to the wedding. That's about three more months people. THREE MORE MONTTTHHHHHHHSSSSS!!! *faints*

Engagement album dah siap! :D

 



I finally went for my kursus kahwin yesterday and the day before! *poms-poms* We've been delaying the thing since I don't know when. Dr R insisted of going again (despite having the cert already from years ago), so I have to wait and fit my free time into his tight schedule. All that's left now is wait for him to submit his application form for bernikah and I can proceed with my application!

Sijil kursus kahwin! :D

Other preparation for the solemnization are:

1. Find inai person! - Any recommendations?
2. Send my nikah baju to the tailor - I have not send my kaen to be made into a nikah dress yeeettt!!!! *hyperventilates*
3. Find a scarf and a veil!! - I'm hopeless when it comes to the tudung bit -__-" Please recommend! *puppy eyes* :p

With all the hectic-ness going on, alhamdulillah we have a few things that can be crossed off the list.

1. Theme colour and design of the nikah pelamin
2. Theme colour and design of the reception pelamin - they were super nice to throw in another 'thing' into my package free of charge! :D
3. Baby sister just booked her dress as my maid of honour on the nikah day. So now I can tell my bridesmaids their theme colour! :p 
4. Picked out the songket get measurements taken for the groom side's reception.
5. Finalise design and colour for groom's pelamin!
6. Finalise design, colour and font for the wedding invites! - waiting for the real mock invites je! :D

Meeting the pelamin and baju people for the groom's side! :)

 

My songket!!! :p

 

Having all that being said, I could not have done all this without the support of my parents and my loving partner. In the two days of having him around, we have successfully settle 6 things! Today of course, I woke up really late (slept like a baby now that my stress level has tremendously reduced!! :p)

The two days of kursus and settling wedding things was extremely tiring. But it's even worse for Dr R. He has to drive everywhere for the last two days, drove back to Johor very late last night (around 11.30pm) and woke up as early as 5am this morning for work!! And today, he still have time to text me and give me his opinions on the wedding details at work and be as supportive as any excellent fiance would be. I seriously have no idea how he does it!!

 Mamak session

Celebrating getting the kursus kahwin sijil cum meeting the wedding invites person :p

I seriously am a very blessed girl to have such an amazing partner as Dr R. Thank you for making the most stressful time bearable and worth it. I love you so much sayang :) I pray that the bond that we've built together continue to blossom, blessed by Allah and will last till Jannah :)

I love you! :)

Of the ex-boyfriend!

23rd June 2012
With the ex-boyfriend

of being pre-booked!

I've been wearing this ring for exactly 6 months and 2 weeks. It's a ring given by D.r R when his family came over last December to ask my hand in marriage.

And we've been so blessed over this period of time. We do argue a bit a lot sometimes most of the times. I know that we haven't had the most smooth sailing as we wanted it to be. But we have never ending support and super love from both our families.

I am very excited to take the relationship to the next level. Not long to go till I end my boyfriend-girlfriend era with D.r R.

Thank you baby for being the best guy for me. And thank you for loving me all this while and actually inderstand me and accept me for who I really am.

Who would have ever thought that I'm pre-booked by my standard six classmate who I've lost contact with for the last 12 years. And believe it or not, I was his first love crush. And I feel so lucky that he's been such a great person to me. And I am so thankful that I'm marrying you someday D.r R :)

I love you D.r R! ;)

Of five more days!

Just five more days left. Five days peeps! Fuhh! *sweats*I know it's only a small step of the whole picture, but I'm definitely excited about it. I've been having butterflies in my tummy for the whole week last week. And will definitely continue through out the whole week.

I really wish I don't have to go to work this coming week and the following week. I'm so not in the mood to go to work! :p And, I have errands to run before Friday! I need to remember to go:

1. Send off my handbag

2. Pick up the chocolates

3. Get the ring shined, resize (I hope not!!) and engraved!

 4. Buy the chocolates

5. Pick up the flowers

6. Cut my nails

7. Go and get manicure and pedicure

8. Get a massage (if I have the time)

9. Remind the photographer

10. Get my hair trimmed a bit

I hope everything's going to go well. I'm too nervous to even think about it!! I can't wait to step in into the next phase of the relationship! :D

I love you lots sayang! :)

countdowns!

Countdowns:

3 days to baby sis coming home!

4 days until peak season's over at work! *wweeeeeee!*

7 days to celebration *remind me to only order low calorie fruits and veges :((*

12 days to annual leave! *yay-ness!*

13 days to manicure and pedicure *slabs lotion on hands and feet* :p

13 days left to freak out! *sweat a bucket*

14 days to pure bliss! :)

Home soon sis! I miss you!! :(

i love you :)

I had quite an emotional Saturday today. D.r R is super busy at work for the past 4++ days and we haven't been able to talk to each other as much as we used to. And don't worry, I'm not emotional because I miss him so much or anything. I'm being slghtly emotional because I am very happy.

I never imagined that I'll be and get to this stage of life before. I spent the whole day just thinking of how much I've achieved so far. I cannot express how lucky I am to have such an amazing and loving parents, and siblings. They have been with me since my day 1 on earth. They never turned their backs on me and have always always been there for me, no matter what, when and where.

And as I turn 24 last year, I finally found my long lost soulmate. I knew he's the one the moment I went out with him. I know this may sound super cliche, but it's true. It doesn't take a month, a year or five years to figure out if he's the one for me.

Alhamdulillah, our relationship is still going strong up to this day. I could not ask for a better partner than him. Well technically, I could. But I don't want to. His imperfections and flaws makes up him. Who he really is. And he is the only one that I need and want, today, tomorrow and for the rest of my life (again, sorry for being so corny. He makes me corny -_-")

I love you D.r R. And I'm ready to take the next step with you. And I want to spend the rest of my life with you as your wife one day insyaAllah (will you marry me one day pretty pleeeeaaassseeeeee *puppydog eyes* :p)

Thank you for coming in to my life after 24 very long years (technically 12 years since we last see each other :p). And thank you for making me the happiest I've ever been in my life. I love you :)

naughty or nice?

 Guess where we've been? :D

the first step!

I'm so excited that Friday is here (despite the fact that I have to work tomorrow). But seeing D.r R after work and spending the rest of the weekend with him would make it all worth it! :D

We have tons of things planned out over this very very short weekend. I really hope that I can get a few things ticked off in the list, so that we'll be able to move forward. For the time being, everything is in the planning phase. InsyaAllah tomorrow will be the start day of the plan execution! *cross fingers*

Thanks for sacrificing your time and energy for the past three days of super super long hours of work just so that you get to spend two days with me! I am extremely lucky to have you as my partner D.r R! :) 

 

I absoloutely love you sayang! :)

 

p/s: I haven't decide whether to cut my hair or not tomorrow. Dilemma!

A fresh start!

New site! It's like breathing fresh air  :D (Okay, that's a lie. It feels just the same :p). But anyhoo, how's your weekend so far? Mine's been really great! Filled it with a (yes, singular) really awesome thing with both of my parents! :)

I'm still trying to grasp the whole situation in my mind. I have to admit it still feel soooo unreal! But when ever I say it out loud, I can't help feeling this jittery and butterfly in my tummy. And when ever I say it to D.r R, I'll be all giddy and super excited (like jumping in the air excited!), while he gives me this innocent-expressionless expression! *ketuk kepala* :p

I'm really glad and extremely grateful that I have two very supporting parents to help me get through this whole phase, both in moral support and physical (read:financial) support! :p ehehe. But seriously, I would go crazy if I don't have you two in my life!! Million thanks to you both, and please make sure that I treat you guys for your n-th honeymoon somewhere really really nice when all this is over okey? :D

p/s: Guess where I was today? :p

pp/s: have a relaxing long weekend ahead! :)